Do you realize all the thoughts that pass through your mind in a given day? Here's a "what are you thinking" scenario.
Your alarm goes off and you're thinking it's only Wednesday and why can't I call-in sick? Then you get up and put on the radio or TV and the latest media contrived breaking news fills your thoughts. You start to get ready and begin your day. A little while later you get in your car. Your mind wanders from one thing to another. A song on the radio reminds you of a good time you had, a passing car driving erratically reminds you that everyone is rushing like crazy to get where they need to be and then you remember the argument you had with your mom, boyfriend or girlfriend last night. Before you know it, you start replaying the entire discussion in your mind. She said this, I said that. Then I said this and she said that. Then her tone changed and she said this and you said that. Suddenly you find yourself in the throes of the whole argument all over again. Once again, like last night, you're upset, angry or put-off. Now you'll take those thoughts with you as you get to work. Those thoughts will shape your day. Later on when you are on the phone you'll be a little short with a co-worker or a customer and then you'll think it's their fault. You'll think to yourself that they are the one with the attitude. Is it really their fault? Did that person really have an attitude? No. Maybe you spend day all being upset and later you end up yelling at one of your kids or screaming at your spouse. All of this started from a "thought" that came into your mind hours earlier.
What is a thought? Can we see thoughts? Is a thought something tangible? Although we can't see our thoughts they do exist. Your thoughts are powerful. Very powerful. Science has proven that we are a combination of cells, DNA, genes, etc., all of that makes up our physical form, but we are also masses of energy. Thoughts are energy. If you believe that we are all energy, then you must believe that thoughts are energy. Thoughts are radiated out from your energy field to the universe and then radiated back to you. If you are constantly thinking angry thoughts the universe has no choice but to send angry energy back to you. In the same respect, if you are thinking good, loving thoughts the universe will radiate that back to you. I like to think of my thoughts as beautiful luminescence or fairy dust. When I have wonderful, beautiful loving thoughts, that fairy dust radiates out to the universe is magnified and comes back to me even more beautifully and loving.
Do I always have beautiful, loving, joyful thoughts? No. I know you don't either. I have found that there are times when we all need to 'vent'. Living here in So Cal, one would think why would I need to vent? The weather is amazing here, the landscape is beautiful and it's so expansive. Well there's the idiot who cuts me off on the freeway or the girlfriend who won't stop complaining about her job or the phone that never stops ringing. Let's face it - - we all have times when we need to vent. When I have the need to vent I say, "Okay, I'm taking two minutes to vent about this and then I'm done with it!!! For two minutes or less, I'll vent and when that time is up, I refuse to allow it to come into my thoughts. If it creeps in, I say "Not going there". Does this work? Yes!!! Two minutes of venting will not return to me the same level of energy as mentally allowing my thoughts to ruin day after day after day. Days, weeks and months of returned negative energy can be terrible.
After awhile, you learn to vent less because you don't let your thoughts control you. You are in charge of your thoughts. Over time, you learn to let a lot of things go. I find now that it takes a lot for me to get to a place where I need to vent. I spend my days focusing on positive, wonderful things I'm striving for. When you re-train your thoughts (and that is what this process is about) you are sending out a different energy to everyone and everyone reacts to you differently. Try this for a day. You'll be surprised. The boss, who you made judgments about, or the dynamic with your mom/brother/sister, etc will shift once you stop thinking those thoughts you have about them.
In the end, it's about accepting that we are all different and are all coming from a different place of reality - our thoughts. If you choose to change your thoughts, you can only find happiness at the end of the rainbow. I'd take that choice any day. How about you?
Don't shoot the messenger!
Recently, I had two clients call me to complain that timeframes I had given them for upcoming changes hadn't occurred. They were annoyed at me and wanted to know what happened. When I read for the first client, I saw that a fellow co-worker was going to be fired and that a new job opportunity was coming for her. I was given a timeframe for this change and passed it along to my client. The timeframe had come and gone and my client was annoyed because the firing hadn't occurred. I told her that the firing was still going to come and that she needed to be patient.
When I read for the second client, she inquired about the status of her ex-boyfriend and his current girlfriend. I saw a break-up coming between the two of them. I could see that the ex-boyfriend was going to contact my client after breaking it off with his girlfriend. As with the first client, I gave her the timeframe I was given. She called to complain because the break-up hadn't happened. I could see that the break-up was still imminent and asked her to be patient.
In all my years of doing readings, I've never had clients complain like this. I feel I need to address these complaints in this newsletter to better educate clients about the information they receive in readings.
1. All psychics perceive information from the other side. We are messengers, conduits, channels, facilitators of information. We take the things we see, hear, feel, sense and smell and provide this information to our clients. Some psychics get timeframes when they read, some don't. In most of my readings, I get timeframes and I pass them along to help my clients.
2. The universe operates on its own schedule, its own timeframe and its own way of affecting changes. The timetable that the universe operates under is different than our earthly time. The universe doesn't care about your 'agenda'. The universe doesn't care about what fits into your schedule and when. The universe doesn't care if you are inconvenienced by something not working out by a specific day or time. The universe functions as a vehicle for the collective and the whole. If you understand how the universe works and why it works the way that it does, then you can comprehend that there needs to be flexibility and patience with the process.
Don't shoot the messenger!! Please don't call me to blame, vent or complain. I have no control over the universe nor would I want to. I tried to explain these facts to both clients. Timeframes change for many reasons. Maybe the woman who was supposed to get fired didn't get fired because she still had karma to fulfill? Maybe the guy and his girlfriend didn't break-up because there was unfinished business that needed to be taken care of before they could part? There could be 100 reasons why things didn't happen the way they were supposed to.
I would be lying if I didn't say that these phone calls were hurtful to me. Most of you know that I've been there for you through all your times of crisis. Calling me to complain about something that I have no control over isn't right at all. When you come for a reading, it's important to maintain a sense of openness and flexibility. You have to be able to go with the flow. You are given information that can change depending on what the universe needs to achieve and what karma and dharma needs to be fulfilled. Trust in the reading, trust in the integrity of the information you receive and have patience with the process. We are in the period of the 'quickening' and more and more changes will affect all our lives in the days, weeks, months and years to come. Think of yourself as the willow tree that bends easily in the breeze. You'll save yourself a lot of aggravation by being that tree.
A SIDE NOTE: The woman who was supposed to get fired did get fired two weeks later. The guy who was supposed to break-up with his girlfriend broke-up with her three weeks later. Interesting how things did happen the way they were supposed to just a little later than 'expected'. :-)
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